LiTtlE tHinGs

When was the last time you got something special for your wife;NOT SEX.
A sour relationship begins with neglect of little thing.
Every day you ignore little things,either as a man or a lady,you dig a hole for what's left of your relationship.
In principle,we all agree that family is the most important thing to us but in reality,how we handle little things that concerns our family reveals that we really don't understand what matter to family.
You missed a birthday or anniversary,a time out with your wife or kids. This seemingly little things form the bedrock for a crack in your relationship.

What matters you ladies NEVER make sense to the men. Her hair,nails,the heel of shoes,the under growth of her hair,her next birthday,what people think,etc. To the man,its unthinkable to worry about this things when the economy of Nigeria need be fixed. However,I have learnt that the economy starts with the happiness of your wife and kids. Fixing a bigger problem starts with fixing a smaller problem.
Similarly,men have unique needs; we love cars,success,power,show off our wives. Men celebrates women that celebrate their little success hence the secretary that adores him always gets his best over a wife that nags always.
Its a mistery we can never understand but little things count.
Men and women alike need little thing to feel fulfilled.
Building a viable relationship starts with identifying the solutions are always simple.
For example,when was the last time you planned a dinner date for your wife or husband? When was the last time you visited her parents without her knowledge. When was the last time you did her laundry while she procrastinates doing it. Loyalty is born out of conviction that he or she has my back. People are loyal to whoever they feel would protect them.
The feeling of protection begins with little things.
Try saying this;honey,do you need anything? Anything at all.
Its makes you feel responsible and the other person feels safe.

Guys,learn to say to your wife;you are beautiful and am glad I have you.
Ladies learn to say to your man;you are my hero and I look up to you.
We have all we need once we look carefully at what we have....each other.
Be comfortable admitting you need to learn more to be better. The arrogance of knowing too much is destructive. Always seek to know and know you will.
By default,show love with little thing even when it don't make sense.
The value of your effort is understood in time.
Life is a journey where small thing count.