SMS Part 2

…..Going, going, going; gone!

Hello how’s life with you? I’m hopeful that we are achieving objectives. I am equally hopeful that we’re making progressive decisions.
Anyway let me quickly give an update of my last encounter with the pretty usher in church.
I went undercover….hahahahaha, I met my usher friend, very friendly I must say but before I met her, I got few details but it was too late. She’s is not available, in fact as we speak, she’s preparing hard.
Here’s my story, I have a friend in church, she called me and bla blab la we went, I did not have the ushers name so I had to describe her, I started by saying, the lady wears good shoes….hahahahah, her hair is always well done, she ushers with style….hahahahaha. Look the description sounded funny. Finally she got the name and said she’s not available. Dissatisfied I asked on another day, are you sure she’s the one? I did not get a quick reply so I went to ask another spiritual sis in church, this time around I had a name so I asked, omg the answer was same….she’s no longer available.

Guys;that was it, I accepted and dealt with it pretty fast. My usher is dating a fine gentle man I must say, very Godly from afar, committed member of this church. He looks like a reliable person in my view and I wish them well.

In the cause of my undercover mission, I discovered that many times we do the right thing the wrong time, we procrastinate a lot on matters that need urgent attention. I took time out to ask a few persons questions about their experiences; it was amazing what I heard. A few ladies I talk to complained about the refusal of the guys to speak up, a particular lady decided to be more forward and on a particular day had to say something nice to a guy she admired in church, she said, after service I noticed he was wearing a lovely shirt so I mentioned “I love your shirt” the guy just walked pass her, she said she was ashamed, she prayed for the ground to open and swallow her up.

For a lady who wanted to make an effort, that was not a good experience, she’s still healing from that experience. Another lady said recently that guys don’t know what it does to a lady when we (Ladies) expect them to say something and they just keep staring. It breaks every wall we (Ladies) put in place. Another lady said she feels funny when a guy just walk past her and look away whereas he was looking at me from afar, only to get close and say nothing.

Guys, wahala dey oh,I never knew ladies feel anything, I see them on six inches heel and with awesome bags and they look almost untouchable, they look like Gods specials, I mean the don’t look don’t touch of Gods program in the church but from all the feeds coming in, I am sorry that’s not how it is, ladies are people, Pastor Tony once said, all the people you see in church are just ordinary people, the have issues and they are just like you. We need to renew our minds about each other. I decided to review my dealings with people, I don’t have an issue with perception, but I guess many of us assume wrongly about each other.

If you don’t speak up, you might never know, if you have a pain or an interest that needs attention, you need to speak to someone, if you like a guy, talk about it, open up, talk to each other. I understand many people don’t seem to want to be embarrassed but you need to understand that no one is going to run you down from trying. In fact you might be better than me in the sense that you might meet your usher single hence you get to get to know her with strings attached.

I have learnt a new lesson, its broken down into two; going and gone. Some people are going, going and going…..meaning that they are yet to decide, that does not mean there’s no guy pressing for the mark of the lower calling in their lives(I mean the love thingy) it simply means they are still looking and studying, if you get to speak up early, you might be the person that bail the cat out of the bag in that you win her heart.

There’s another group like my usher friend called GONE group, they are the people that are not available, when you hear not available please stay away oh. Don’t say there’re NO LIMITS…hahahahaha in this case of my usher, there are limits. Fi le, don’t touch it.

I want to encourage us as a house to be more proactive, not just in issues regarding relationships but in every aspect of our lives, from business to family, to walking with God, being proactive help us not miss the mark of the high calling. Pastor Tony said a few things during the weekly prayer and fasting that we had in the month of June, he said God works in 2 ways, in exodus we saw the finger of God at work, he suspended natural laws to show forth his strength in Egypt un behalf of Israel, whereas in the book of Esther, we saw the hand of God at work in that he directed and orchestrated the deliverance of his people from Hammans ploy to destroy them.

Pastor Tony said God has a monopoly of choice to determine when to use his finger in our lives, however the hand of God is at work everyday, the problem he pointed is we always wait for the finger of God, we want a spectacular miracle, we want him to part the red sea, we want to see him on Ajah or Lekki road like Paul saw him on his way to Damascus.

I learnt that God is directing us daily, we need to listen, draw closer in the place of prayers and you’ll know what to do and when. Back to meeting people in church, you don’t need the finger of God to show you a lady or a guy in church, you need to understand the hand of God has led you to TPH,Helleluya, if you believe it say yeah! (I feel like preaching) When you see a pretty lady, just do it like Nike, No limits like Pastor Tony, when you see a guy or lady you like feel free like airtel to say hi to him or her. Whatever you do, don’t quit like Tdjakes. Always expect more like glo cos life is beautiful.

I pray we find fulfillment in our objectives. I pray that we learn to decide early.

God bless you.