SMS- Single Male Searching

SINGLE MALE SEARCHING? (SMS)...Lord do something before something do me.

Hey guys, how’s it going? How’s works, business and family for those that have family. Anyway I don’t. Now that’s an issue oh, I literally bore myself lately, I think I finally discovered why God created women, the are very important, I mean very important.

I pursue all this lovely projects/business and as exciting as the get, there’s always this emptiness, I mean imagine coming back home and trying to get some rest and it feels like this house is boring oh. Haba! I should call someone but there’s no one to call.
It got me thinking, how can a man be in TPH yet he’s not married, or seeing anyone? Its either the ladies have a problem or we (Guys) are just not looking.

It got me thinking, friend A,B and C not married, all the big boys are nice and doing pretty well or let me say fair, sound guys but no show. I must confess, we did not see this coming, we just got busy, trying to achieve big dreams, and I must say the dreams are pretty good stuff, we don’t regret but the problem now is its not good for man to be alone.

Look this is to the married people in church, Welldone, I feel the process is so long, the distance between dating and married looks like walking on waters. I however am a firm believer in the fact that good things comes to people who wait. That means I wait, then I shine my eyes.

Meanwhile I don’t want anyone to think I have not tried oh, check out my Cv,I have met a few ladies, some speak too much English, some are career persons, some want to be missionaries,one wanted to be a boxer, some want what the want but in all, I guess its been a journey, I met this lady, we dated and it look like we were going somewhere till she said she could not control me,(Chineke,God forbid bad thing) I said how, she said she wanted a guy who would relocate abroad but I seem not cut of for any abroad runs; that because I have a business in Nigeria and things are looking up pretty well. Well, that one did not work, another lady always said yes, everything I do was good, if I vex she says sorry and knowing who I am,trust me I don’t need that, I am not perfect, am still work in progress, so how can I have the lady in my life concede to anything I do. No way men. Its not good.

I have decided to start looking and hopefully God would open my eyes and show me my own person(Smiles). I would keep correcting anything I need to correct in myself, I would travel less and do the chit chat thing more. I am hopeful that very soon, I would sing it out loud, it is the lords doing and it’s marvelous in my sight.it is the lords doing I would praise him..haleluya....(Sing with me if you know the song)

I was in church recently, I mean the Eko hotel event we had, the one Myles Munro was guest speaker. You know we had a men@work program on Friday and we got some strong words, let me rush through some points,
The place of a man in a home is not on top, its at the bottom, it means we take responsibility, we make things happen, we should be dependable, we are the custodian of the mandate of God in the home, if you were not there, please get the Cd,I advice the ladies to get the Cd too, it pays to know what a good man should be doing. Anyway back to what I was saying, at that event I saw one lady, wao, she’s pretty. She gave me envelop for offering, I almost did not give the offering oh hahahahahhaha. I was turning my neck and looking out for her but it seem this ushers don’t stay in one place.

Am sorry oh but the message is more than words, sometimes God uses a donkey to speak to people, so he can use the ushers or choir or any lady to speak to any man-Shine your eyes. I saw a pretty lady, wao; see her shoes, her hair, skirt, makeup, in fact she was so well dressed I had to ask ( Who be this?) That day I said to myself, there are pretty ladies in TPH and any man that says he’s not seeing them needs PT to lay hands on him oh(Just my view)

I am really optimistic, I have not seen that lady lately, but I would keep attending church for the love of God and other side attractions. I know whom I have believed. That which he has said about me would surely come to pass. Did I hear you say Amen? Hahahahaha.

Guys, we have good people(Ladies) in church, prayerful sister, very polished ladies, sometimes the speak too much English, sometimes they don’t see how good you are but trust me if you wait long enough and work at it, you’ll get the best out of her. No lady is perfect, just like none of us(Guys) is perfect, we all are work in progress, we need to speak up and less I forget, ladies be nice with the phone number thing.

I read sister Janie’s diary and she mentioned the Ankara guy, in fact if you ever meet me in Ankara, please imagine I have a pair of suit at home hahahahahhahaha, just did not feel like the suit thing today. If you see me on Okada, please show some understanding, am working on getting a car. Ladies, try and see us as people, we are lovely people(Guys),we are been built daily by God, the same words you hear and you believe you are changing, we(Guys) hear those words too, God is working it out.

All the best and hope to say more about my usher friend when next am in church and she’s on duty.

God bless.